Randy L. Stahl II, was born,March 28, 1990 in Albert Lea, Minnesota to Jeanette Chapek and Randy Stahl. Proud grandparents, Alvin and Joyce Chapek and Nancy Stahl of Austin, and Robert Stahl of Austin. Great-grandparents Mrs. Anne Chapek, and Mr. & Mrs.Willard Anderson, and Mr. & Mrs. Leroy Stahl, Austin.                

Randy was the best baby, when he came home from the hospital he slept throw the night. I was told many time I was a lucky to have a bby that slept at night.

I loved it as Randy got bigger and older the smiles,"everyone " said he was just passing gas. I know. I would look into his eye's and talk to him, as he got older I started to reading to him.

I loved having his picture taken every month, so I would take you to wal-mart and have them done,beside the pictures I took at home.

Boy, you were grandpa Alvin's pride an joy. Even though he first thought he could break you when you can home,"Grandpa said" He's to small for me to hold. That changed so fast, that he would hold you before he go to work and any other time as he wished to.

You and Grandma Joyce are very close, she feed you every chance she could, they love you so much. You are their first Grandchild in the family. That's why I say you were so spoiled by them. 

This is a 4 Generation Picture  


  Randy was bapitzed at Crane Chapel,Austin Mn. In April of 1990. He was so hansome in that white bapitizim outfit. Randy has five Godparents as follows:
Peggy (Great Aunt to Randy)
William (Billy) mom's brother your uncle
Chris (Dad's sister) aunt to you
Kevin (Chris and dad's friend) you called him uncle
Sandy (mom's friend) 
 

Dad and I had a dinner after you were bapitamize at the house in AlbertLea. Everyone came to the party ofter.

It was your First birthday-March. What a party we had, it was all the family bothsides together. You loved Mickey mouse, so that was the theme of your party. Mom had a sit down dinner for your birthday,you got alot of gifts. you were scared to touch your birthday cake mom and dad tried to put your hand onto it and you did not want to touch it.

You and mom lived at grandpa & grandma Chapek house in Albert Lea. Dad And I were together dating and he saw you like everyday.

Dad and I started to talk about getting married, so in October I kinda set a date to get married. We set it for November 15, 1991, It was a small wedding. We loved it. You went with Grandpa & ma for the weekend, as dad and I went to ILL. for the weekend. We had a great time and we talked about making/ having more children.

Then dad and I came back from ILL. on Sunday and started looking for a place to live in Albert Lea. We moved into an Apt. and then we moved to a house in Albert Lea.

Then in Feb. Of 1992 we moved to Rochester MN. We had your second birthday party, It was of the 101 Dalmations you turn 2!!!! what a party.

We took a trip in June of 1992 to AZ, Texas, and Mexico. We moved dad aunt and Great-grandpa to AZ. You were great to travel with I would have to say"YOUR THE BEST" co-polite. The picture is of us on the United State,AZ side. When we were in Mexico we walk down side streets to see the different shop that were set-up. We brought you a coat and we also got 2 blankets from those shop's. We had  lunch in this little cafe there and it was different, they didn't serve water to people cuz there water was not safe,you could buy bottled water. you had a taco from there. When were at Spud's place and it being your first trip to AZ, "you brunt the bottum's of one of you feet,cuz in MN you can go bare feet and the road,sidewalk's DON"T get that hot". We had a great time. Then we went to Fort Worth TX, for a family union.

 After the Family union we went to meet your Great-great grandma on your dad's side they lived really close to speersport Louisianna we werethere for a couple of day's then we got onto a gray hound bus to come back to Minnsota that took us 2 day's to get home withall the stop's and lay overs. You  did a great job with traveling all over that area. Couldn't wait to take you on athe trip.

You love'd having your picture taken. So These are very special people in your life that are pictured with you above.

You were so much fun, you had master riding a little bike with training wheels. you love swimming and this was a good time to potty train you because you had been told that you couldn't pea in pool and NO diaper's aloud in the pool. so within 2 day's you were wearing big boy pants... We were so proud of you.

Randy start Head start and enjoyed it every much. Mom and dad decided to get divorced and it was final in September of 1994. We became friends after the divorce.

Randy started Kindgarten.

We had meeting every 6 weeks with staff at the treatment Center, and family meeting once a week if that work out. Big Randy (dad) one week and Jeanette ( mom) the other week. So Randy seen us/at least twice a month, or on other occousion that the treament center would be putting on. We dad and I would talk to Randy almost every day by phone while Randy had his phone cards or if we had plans to call him.

See back in December Randy got New clothes for Christmas and they fit him very well.

He calls me, one day in Febraury say's mom I need new pants, I said; what happen to your pants? Randy say they are to short for me.. What are you growing I said? Yes MOM!!! I am growing. Okay well your birthday is coming in March and I will get you some New pants. He told his dad the same thing and his dad got him some pants faster then I did.

Randy got a pass for his birthday to be able to leave the Treatment center for a few hours. HAY!! Randy tures 17 years old, He pick where he wanted to have his birthday supper at, Oliver garden, Randy had steak with noodles he liked it. Then Grandma and myself got him a little chocolete cake and we sang to him. I did bring cupcake to the Center for there night snack.

We went shopping at Wal-Mart after supper and Randy spent some of his money on clothes for summer and did buy 2 pairs of pants, but that's all he bought for him self. He talked grandma and mom into more things for him for his birthday and I planned that I would buy summer clothes for him at Wal-mart. Grandma got him pop, snacks and a phone card.

You left us, our hearts are broken, you helped others the next day or two with Donating our Oragans so other could have a chance. We are proud of you. Telling mom your wishes on organ donating after you heard about it after lossing your best friend Christa.     

Randy died from playing the "choking game". This game is deadly. Parents out there need to be informed about this game.  Your children are playing this to get a "high" feeling, they don't even know that while playing it, it kills brain cell's because they are having friends do the  choking or choking themselves, If played alone you can and in most case they die.The "GAME" is also known as: pass out, fainting game, blackout, space monkey just to name some.

WARNING SIGNS:,Things to watch for if you might think your child is doing this is: BLOOD SHOT eyes, red marks around the neck, horsey voice, headaches (very offen) locked bedroom doors.

Check your childs closets/room for ropes,scaves.

I found this News article And want to post it here... Beware Of the people we trust with our children.

Camp personal arrested for doing" THE CHOKING GAME"
Unbelievable! Camp counselor arrested...

Camp counselor arrested, accused of teaching 'choking game'
Friday, April 18, 2008
CHARLESTON, S.C. —

Authorities say a 17-year-old camp counselor has been arrested after teaching the "choking game" to two boys who passed out for several minutes.

Ronald Edward Riley was a counselor at a camp for children of deployed soldiers or those preparing to go overseas. Authorities say he put his hands around a boy's neck and choked him unconscious twice. A second boy also told authorities Riley choked him until he passed out.

Riley, of Saluda, was arrested at his high school this week on assault and unlawful conduct charges. He was being held Friday at a Clarendon County jail on $30,000 bail. Jail officials said they didn't know whether Riley had an attorney.

The game is a fad among youth seeking the euphoric, dreamlike feeling that people get as blood rushes back to the brain.

Here is a web site you should check out.www.TheDBFoundation.com

This should  be part of the talks that us parent do with our children whenit comes to, sex, drug, drinking and driving, huffing. 

Here is a web site to see other's that lost their life from playing the "CHOKING GAME", They are our Angel's.

http://www.onetruemedia.com/shared