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OCTOBER 31,2008 { 2ND YEAR WITHOUT YOU}
Randy it is the second halloween without. Your sister are being witches this year they look great. Brandi was a Fairy for a Halloween party she went to.
Halloween was one of your favorites holiday's cuz you got to dress up and scare people you enjoyed that and getting candy. We miss you and think of you every day. Love you Honey, you can see us from heaven. Happy Halloween!!! to your Randy!!!
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July 2008
This is a different kind of a Month. You liked the summer months and in July you would have been in a part of the 4Th of July Calabrations and you like being part of it.
So now it's been 13 months since you passed away, This iw a bitter sweet month, Dad and I have talked with (Bill) that has recieved your (Kidney). It was a happy/sad day for me. But I am okay with evrything this far. I will only post Information about other if I get their permission .
I love You and miss ya so much
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June Of 2008
I sit here and think about you finishing school and gradurating
Go Class Of 2008!!
With all the teacher in heaven, I got to believe that all the children are learning and will Gradurate in Heaven. So HAT"S OFF TO our son, and Christa Lynn your best friend in life and know you 2 are together in heaven. Miss you both so much.I love you!!!
We miss you both so much that I needed to add Christa to this month.
You Angel's Day are: Christa Lynn June 18,2004
Randy's Angel Day June the 10, 2007
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March (Madness with out you my son,Randy)
Happy Birthday Randy. This month is your birthday you would being turning 18 on the 28th of this month. You have been in heaven for 8 months 18 days now. We miss you everyday we will not stop thinking about you. Your memories liove in your hearts four ever my son. We sill be having a party for you here on earth in memory of all the past birthday we had with you. So We all are send you Big HUGS and Kisses to heaven, You have a party in heaven with your family that is there with you. Great-grandma is with you know she will hug you and kiss you like she did when you were here, You were her sweet randy lee. your love to you.
Randy Easter is this month to
Happy Easter
to you
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*February 2008 Without you*
 
Randy it is febuary of 2008. This is the month that we always shared how much we loved each other and your family member. You are gone but not forgotten. So I am showing you just how much you are loved by your family. You sister talk about u everyday and say how much they love and miss you. They want u to now that they will alway love you and keep you in there hearts.With Valintaines this month I wanted to add some things to your page so others can see how much you are loved and missed.Randy We Love you soooo much and miss you not being here with us.  your family,Mom,cliff,Grandma, Makayla and Mckenzie  Kiss to you and Big HUGS
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January 2008
This Is the new year 2008 . You are not with us anymore and we have to learn to live without you here in the phycail sence. I know you will live in your hearts forever. 2008 was to be a big year for you. you would have been a Senior in High School and doing all the things Senior do to get ready for your last days at a high school. You would be filling out College form now and trying to firgure out what you want to so with your life. That's Not going to happen for you know. You are now watching over your family and keeping us all safe. That is how you were/are. You were the most caring loving son,brother, newphew and grandson and friend anyone could have ask for. YOU are the best you make me so proud to be your mom.
January 2008 is for all the memory we have of you doing what you loved to do with friends and family. We love you !!!!!! You will never beforgotten for as long as we all live.
  Football you love watching the games with you dad and family. You really got into play poker and being pretty good at it to.
 You love snowbroarding at Mount Kato you said it was one of the best day of your life.  You loved going Ice fishing when you could and you would tell us the fish stories. You love to fish period you didn't care about the weather. You took after your grandpa Alvin that's for sure.  TAZ was your favorite charcter and you had him all over your room. So I wanted other to Know you were alot like TAZ , HAHA . Randy You r so loved and missed everyday. Rest In Peace my Son.
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First Christmas In Heaven, Without you my Son, Love you 4 Ever
 
I see the countless CHRISTMAS TREES around the world below
with tiny lights like HEAVEN’S STARS reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so SPECTACULAR please wipe away that tear
for I am spending CHRISTMAS WITH JESUS CHRIST this year.
I hear the many CHRISTMAS SONGS that people hold so dear
but the SOUND OF MUSIC can't compare with the CHRISTMAS CHOIR up here.
I have no words to tell you of the JOY their voices bring
for it is beyond description to HEAR THE ANGELS SING.
I know HOW MUCH YOU MISS ME, I see the pain inside your heart
for I am spending CHRISTMAS WITH JESUS CHRIST this year.
I can't tell you of the SPLENDOR or the PEACE here in this place
Can you just imagine CHRISTMAS WITH OUR SAVIOR face to face
I'll ask him to LIFT YOUR SPIRIT as I tell him of your love
so then PRAY FOR ONE ANOTHER as you lift your eyes above.
Please let your HEARTS BE JOYFUL and let your SPIRIT SING
for I am spending CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN and I’m walking WITH THE KING.
~ by Wanda Bencke
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This is how I feel about lossing you, my Son
BEREAVED PARENTS WISH LIST
I wish Randy hadn't died. I wish I had him back.
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I wish you wouldn't be afraid to speak my child's name.
Randy lived and was very important to me.
I need to hear that he was
important to you also.
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If I cry and get emotional when you talk about Randy,
I wish you
knew that it isn't because you have hurt me.
Randy's death is the cause of my tears.
You have talked about my child and you have
allowed me to share my grief.
I thank you for both.
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Being a bereaved parent is not contagious, so I wish you wouldn't
shy away from me.
I need you now more than ever.
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I need diversions, so I do want to hear about you, but I also want
you to hear about me.
I might be sad and I might cry, but I wish you
would let me talk about Randy; my favorite topic of the day.
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I know that you think of and pray for me often.
I also know that my
Randys death pains you too.
I wish you would let me know these
things through a phone call, a card or note, or a real big hug.
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I wish you wouldn't expect my grief to be over.
These first years
are traumatic for me,
but I wish you could understand that my grief
will never be over.
I will suffer the death of Randy until the day
I die
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I am working hard in my recovery, but I wish you could understand
that I will never fully recover. I will always miss Randy and I
will always grieve that he is dead.
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I wish you wouldn't expect me "not to think about it" or "be
happy". Neither will happen for a very long time, so don't frustrate
yourself.
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I don't want to have a "Pity party", but I do wish you would let me
grieve. I must hurt before I can heal.
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I wish you understood how my life has shattered.
I know it is
miserable for you to be around me when I'm feeling miserable.
Please
be as patient with me as I am with you.
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When I say, "I'm doing okay", I wish you could understand that I
don't "feel" okay and that I struggle daily.
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I wish you knew that all of the grief reactions I'm having are very
normal.
Depression, anger, hopelessness and overwhelming sadness are
all to be expected.
So please excuse me when I'm quiet and withdrawn
or irritable and cranky.
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Your advice to "take it one day at a time" is excellent advice.
However, a day is too much and too fast for me right now.
I wish you
could understand that I'm doing good to handle an hour at a time.
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Please excuse me if I seem rude, certainly not my intent.
Sometimes
the world around me goes too fast and I need to get off.
When I walk
away, I wish you would let me find a quiet place to spend time alone.
I wish you understood that grief changes people.
When Randy died,
a big part of me died with him. I am not the same person I was
before Randy died and I will never be that person again.
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I wish very much that you could understand ~ understand my loss and
my grief.
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Poem
Author Unkown
The Cord
We are connected
My child and I, by
An invisible cord
Not seen by the eye
It's not like the cord
That connects us "till Birth"
This cord can't be seen
By any on Earth
This cord does its' work
Right from the start
It binds us together
Attached to my heart
I know that it's there
Though no one can see
The invisible cord
From my child to me
The strength of this cord
Is hard to describe
It can't be destroyed
It can't be denied
It's stronger than any cord
Man could create
It withstands the test
Can hold any weight
And though you are gone
Though you're not here with me
The cord is still there
But no one can see
It pulls at my heart
I am bruised… I am sore
But this cord is my lifeline
As never before
I am thankful that God
Connects us this way
A mother and child
Death can't take it away!
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In Memory Of Randy
In Memory:
A thousand times we needed you
A thousand times we cried
If love alone could have saved you
you never would have died
A heart of gold stopped beating
two twinkling eyes closed to rest
God broke our hearts to prove he only took the best
never a day goes by that you’re not in my heart and my soul.
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Heaven with you. We miss each one of you that are their in heaven. Randy my wish this Christmas is that all your family & friends will make though this 1st Christmas and other to come without you here. So give all of us a sign that you are okay and safe in Heaven, honey I miss you and my heart hurt soooo bad. Love to my Son, Brother.
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